PatrioticBriton

John Carter - why are you no longer replying? I've sent a PM several days ago.

John Carter

Because I have a life and can't sort everything for you free of charge at the drop of a hat. I'm thinking about your situation - slowly - and I'll get back to you when I've thought.

Patience, young jedi.

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PatrioticBriton

Should I ask her to dance with me at a club when she comes there or is the answer "no" again because she'll think I'm stubborn? And will it matter to her whether I go there? Won't she think I'm a boring man if I don't go there?

John Carter

Dude, at this point I'm fair certain that you'll never see the inside of this girl's sock drawer.

You need to slow down and learn some patience. You're way too in-your-face to catch her and you're not in a "first contact" situation - you're in a "rescue an extremely bad screw up" situation.

And here's the answer to your above dilemma:

If you go and ask her to dance, she'll say "no" whilst thinking "I wish he'd leave me alone". If you don't go she won't think you're boring - she won't be thinking of you, period. The best possible thing to do in this situation if you want the girl and you know she'll be at said event is to go there with a prettier girl who has bigger boobs - and enjoy yourself.

So, do what you want dude.