So you change the rules to suit yourself then you are nothing but a hypocrite, a humbug and a boor. It is ok for you to "tell it like it is" but not for people to tell it like it is to you. You are right you are not a nice person at all, in fact I stand by my original comments about you.
Your remark "Gives it but like many bullies cant take it I stand by my comment" I can, and will take most things at a "discussion" level but when it becomes a "YOU are a (whatever)" is when the rules change.